"You come to know God through behavior, not ideas. It’s the way you act in your marriage that is a reflection of how much you understand God." - Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
“Yes, my beloved brothers and sisters, life is good if we live in such a way to make it so. Believing, desiring, deciding, and choosing correctly are the simple actions that define an increase in happiness and an increase in the inner assurance that transcends this life.”
-Elder Benjamin De Hoyos, True Happiness: A Conscious Decision
Celestial marriages were never meant to be a hierarchy. There is not one spouse over another in the eyes of God. It is not about domination and power, but relationships and connection.
“No power or influence can or ought to be maintained by virtue of the priesthood, only by persuasion, by long-suffering, by gentleness and meekness, and by love unfeigned.” D&C 121:41